The psychological life of humans is complex and never develops in a perfect way. One of the characteristics of the human being is his own imperfection.Therefore, there are always children lags which are called them children’s wounds that when they are not recognized or accepted, can cause great pain in adult life.Of course, is not blamed anyone nor responsibility of adults, except in extreme cases like violence or abuse, however, and despite this, the person who suffers from them and suffers, regardless of why it happened, you need to do responsible heal to dignify your very existence.In this way, it is necessary to raised awareness and give us the task of curing them and assume them, because in this way will allow you to go through life with greater lightness. Within these wounds, some scholars, have spoken of it and we can say that there is for example: La Huella de abandono:e a wound important when we feel that we have been abandoned, not only on the physical plane, but in the emotional and psychological. Fear of loneliness is his tonic and therefore, they demand an exaggerated attention and presence.For people with footprint of abandonment, nothing is enough. He is expressed through words, not of the facts:-frequently ask: I want to, no matter you have a birthday party. they need confirmation.-claim: I’ve not talked all afternoon, your friends because where are – justify: I knew nothing of you, why, I’ll call – confirmation: can’t live so long without you. Finally, at times your demand becomes annoying and even irritating. What causes the couple strong feelings of anger, because people with footprint of abandonment seem to have no llenadera.

It is as if they have an inner hole that cannot be filled with nothing, and also living with great resentment, if the couple does not cover with each and every one of your expectations. The climate of the couple of frustration and powerlessness to not get your partner of that situation, they tend to depression and dependence. Some of them become codependent, and in general, are linked with couples of the what they can rely on to resolve them their needs or malfunctions, abandon them frequently in all senses. They are unstable and require the presence of the other in sum frequency, so that can get to live quite serious conflicts, especially when linked with couples indepndientes, autonomous or addicted or narcisitas. But the couple, as much as you do, you can never resolve the conflict of abandonment, it is a responsibility, if it is that you actually want to cure and heal your wounds of the heart. Attending workshops, it takes therapy, read books on self-help, in the end, today there are many resources in order to recover you and rely on your self-esteem and your person. Also, I have spoken about others injured as they are the of: rejection, humiliation and ijusticiEn Cecreto work on the quality of emotional life. If you want to work on that visit our site and acquires some of electronic materials with which you have a lot of options to heal.

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